I think the idea is marriage has become a social construct which scares me. The sacrifices and compromise that comes with it seems a bit too much as well. I’m such a structured person and hate when my plans get derailed, imagine having to derail it because of someone else, I will resent the person for sure. Why do we have to compromise, why can’t we just be on the same level. I can compromise for minutes, hours but forever ??? Isn’t that too much.
I think people just find their person who they’re ready to sacrifice and compromise for which it’s admirable, but from my stand point, it feels like a lot of work I’m not up for. At least, I’m not the only weird one… you’re with me🥹
I also belong to this school of thought.
I think the idea is marriage has become a social construct which scares me. The sacrifices and compromise that comes with it seems a bit too much as well. I’m such a structured person and hate when my plans get derailed, imagine having to derail it because of someone else, I will resent the person for sure. Why do we have to compromise, why can’t we just be on the same level. I can compromise for minutes, hours but forever ??? Isn’t that too much.
I think people just find their person who they’re ready to sacrifice and compromise for which it’s admirable, but from my stand point, it feels like a lot of work I’m not up for. At least, I’m not the only weird one… you’re with me🥹
I hope more women would talk about their fear of marriage with so much vulnerability. As a lady in her late 20s, I know this first hand 😭🤣🤣🤣
We will get there one day!🙂↕️