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Muibat's avatar

"No one is going to beat you". I needed this advice so much today. I've been scared to message someone for a while now and I finally got the courage to do it today.

I mean, truly no one is going to beat me but I just don't like the condescension that comes with the replies sometimes. I'm still a bit anxious, my heart is beating really fast right now but at least I did it. And if the reply hurts me, I'll cry and move on I guess. Like I did the last couple of times😕

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Joy Eseyin's avatar

I’m glad!

Oh my love! I know how you’re feeling! I was there just few days ago and the reply I got broke me as well but I’m glad I sent the message and no one came to beat me, neither did I die!

So just do it and feel all the emotions, then pick your bags and move on!

Sending you so much love and strength b🫂

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Muibat's avatar

They aired me💀.

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Joy Eseyin's avatar

Eh💀

God pass them✋🏾

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Bukayo's avatar

Why are you shouting at me omg 🥹.

I had an idea of what I was going to do here before I moved. I went to school for it back in Naija and got a certificate for it. The plan was to get here and start but I have been procrastinating 🤦🏾‍♀️. I keep giving flimsy excuses and now you’re shouting at me 😭😭

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Joy Eseyin's avatar

If I don’t shout at you, who will?😭

Also, stop procrastinating and stand up! Time is going omg😭😭

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sapphy's avatar

This "call out" is loud☹️

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Joy Eseyin's avatar

I knowww😭

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